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Meet the Parents

***

Rated on a 4-star scale
Screening venue: Odeon (Liverpool City Centre)
Released in the UK by UIP on December 15, 2000; certificate 12; 107 minutes; country of origin USA; aspect ratio 1.85:1

Directed by Jay Roach; produced by Robert De Niro, Jay Roach, Jane Rosenthal, Nancy Tenenbaum. Written by John Hamburg, Jim Herzfeld; based on a 1992 film written by Mary Ruth Clarke, Greg Glienna. Photographed by Peter James; edited by Jon Poll.

CAST.....
Ben Stiller..... Greg Focker
Robert De Niro..... Jack Byrnes
Teri Polo..... Pam Byrnes
Blythe Danner..... Dina Byrnes
Nicole BeHuff..... Debbie Byrnes
Jon Abrahams..... Denny Byrnes
Thomas McCarthy..... Bob Banks
Owen Wilson..... Kevin Rawley


Why do we get nervous about meeting parents -- of friends, partners, roommates? Why do we picture worst-case scenarios, afraid of looking impolite, of embarrassment, as if we're going to some kind of audition? People are people. They're not waiting to pounce on us. Things usually turn out okay.

"Meet the Parents" is a parade of social nightmares, a brilliant comedy in which we laugh that we do not cry -- although we do wince, as every expectation the main character has of things turning out okay crumbles and his face gets ever the redder. His name is Greg Focker (Ben Stiller), a nurse from New York City, who goes along with his fiancé (Pam Byrnes) to visit her family out in the country, and spends a whole weekend waiting for the ice to break. Every one of his quips is met with deadly silence. Every idle, meaningless conversation-starter he utters suffers brutal scrutiny. He perpetrates an unforgivable faux-pas with every second move he makes -- like when glancing at the floor, and seeming like he's looking at his prospective mother-in-law's crotch… or making a wisecrack about a vase which turns out to be the fiancé's grandmother's urn.

This is an eccentric comedy where things get progressively ludicrous and unbearable for Greg. The father, played by Robert De Niro, turns out to be an ex-CIA agent, and gives him a lie detector test. Mishaps lead to the garden going up in an electrical fire, a volleyball breaking someone's nose, the cat going missing… you get the idea.

Stiller, used to playing awkward, un-hip guys in films like "Reality Bites" and "There's Something About Mary", is a perfect choice to play Greg -- when he looks embarrassed, we're convinced, and we gasp in shocked laughter at everything that happens to him. De Niro does good work as his nemesis -- quietly menacing and intimidating, hilariously absurd in his desire to despise our young hero.

"Meet the Parents" is merciless up until its last act, when it gets a bit conventional, and allows sentimentality to creep into the material. It works best when Greg is a hapless victim of situations and people that seem inexplicably, absolutely against him -- in those moments it is a devilish masterpiece.

COPYRIGHT© 2000 Ian Waldron-Mantgani


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